When you cry and no one cares, when you scream and no one hears…. When you have a full family and still have to go for a psychologist to be heard! Nothing like being alone amongst millions.
The wonders of the 21st century. We are all too busy to listen or to be listened to, all too busy suffering to have space for someone eke’s suffering, all too busy with our own agony, struggle, dilemma.
At the end we are all severely lonely, negotiating for time or for understanding. Manipulating all we can to be noticed.
We are the only species that go into self and others destruction when we can’t cope with a given situation!
And we cling up to our own position, even if it is wrong, even if it doesn’t serve us! All because we wan to BE! We want to exist and be right, and meaningful, and, and, and….
We forget that sometimes humbleness and the admission that we are not that knowledgeable or right will bring us closer!
We take the longest path, the hardest path, just because we don’tnwant to take a step back. Say sorry I got you wrong! Sorry I dumped on you! Sorry I didn’t listen! Sorry….
And of course the other side, did you really understand what I meant, can I also tell you what I am feeling, do you see why I am snapping…
It’s all too plain stupid! And we are so good at complicating issues, exaggerating its seriousness, that we forget the basics of communication: me – message – receptor and vice-versa
Seriously? We should all have psychology as a mandatory subject from grade 0!